'You normally won't be with the first one you really like'.. This statement from carlos and ila's experience kinda stuck in my mind… At that time.. I dun really understand.. but perhaps I could understand a bit now?

I guess normally when people say… you will get together with a person that you may not like that much, but just that it is a good fit, at the right time, at the right moment that you meet and get together, perhaps cause you want to settle down and 'he' just came at that right moment? Or you are not looking for one and 'he' just appear in front of you…

I wonder how much do I believe in that statement yet.. perhaps when I experienced it? So if I believe in that, so that will define the 'right one'. Then after the 'right one' is identified, you will learn to love him and that's what a relationship is about right? The allowance for both people to grow, to give and take and it will need effort from both to keep it going strong. Hmmm…

Just a thought.. not that I'm feeling bitter or sad or disbelieving or negative.. Really just a flashing thought haha… Like a 'click' that oh, everything kinda makes a bit more sense now. Haha maybe I have grown a bit in this aspect? ^^ Well people has the great capacity to learn, grow and change. One will never know what will happen in the future?

hahaha Unpredictable. That's what makes life so exciting and it is also one of the reasons that my outlook on life is positivity and try not to take things too hard… Cause circumstances will always happen but our perception may be the only thing that will hold us to that crumbling lifeline… And normally, when you look back, it all seems like a distant memory. Mostly friendship complications. =D It's good to be alive, really.